I'm in the service industry.
Throughout the work year, I provide services to my clients, and don't accept any gratuities. Yes, there are service fees for some things, and others are done for free.
At the holidays, my clients will sometimes give me a cash "thank you" for the year. Others give actual gifts.
And as to be expected, that has dwindled over the last couple of years due to the recession. Times are tough!
Here is what I realized today......
Some of my less prosperous clients have given me MORE this year. In some cases, more than they've given me in the past.
And some clients (especially one who I know for a fact has done EXCEPTIONALLY well), gave me markedly less. And these are the clients that people would consider more successful (Lawyers, Executives, etc...)
Now, don't get me wrong - I'm not being a grinch. I appreciate ANY time a client remembers me at the holidays. It just struck me as odd, that the ones who typically have less to share gave more.
Oh, and here's a non-work observation.... Our petsitter (who we'll be using after Christmas, and plan to give her a little extra "thank you" gift) sent our dog a Christmas card. Not only that, she included a gift card to the local pet store! AND - thanked us for letting her watch our dog! Completely BACKWARDS! It's those little things that really mark the holiday season.
Have you had any special things happen that have that certain holiday charm?
AMW
Wednesday, December 21, 2011
Thursday, December 15, 2011
Occupy Norfolk visits my work
Wednesday afternoon, the Occupy Norfolk protest group was scheduled to come and protest at my building. About 50 of them showed up.
One of our state Senators holds an office in our building, but has only been here for visits a few times in the last couple of years. This is not his home, or his normal office.
But they wanted to to be heard by him, and wanted him to come down and talk one on one with them.
"Wednesday's march will be in great need of supplies, as always- Urgent items include markers, signage, t-shirts, American flags, musical instruments of every sort, especially horns, drums, and guitars. We also need donations of 2 sets of Army style fatigues and 4 sets of prison style jumpsuits. Please. Most importantly, bodies will be needed. Everyone who can make it should be there for the noon r......ally and the 2pm march. If you can't make it please send items.]"
We (the building staff) were also informed that they planned to "push" things and have arrests.
It was certainly interesting to watch as things unfolded, and at some points, it was seriously entertaining.
This officer pictured above was apparently well-known by the O.N. group. His name (and YES, it's his REAL name) is Sergeant Lovely. At one point, all the women protesters of O.N. started chanting -
"Hey Sergeant Lovely - You're Sexy, Your Cute, Why's your vest, Bullet proof?"Several times.
And then the all yelled -
"Hey Sergeant Lovely - How about you OCCUPY MY HEART!"I wasn't expecting either of these, and I bust out laughing. So did all of the staff members that were there keeping an eye on things. The other police officers were unfazed. Must have heard it before.
But one of the officers had been video taping the protest, probably for their own protection.
He walked up to Sgt. Lovely and said, "Got it. You haven't seen the last of these...." As he walked away with a smirk. My guess is that if the recording doesn't show up at the next staff meeting, it will show up at his bachelor party, or retirement party, or someone equally embarrassing.
It wasn't long after that, that things went south. Five people purposefully walked up to the sculpture, banded arms together, and sat down. They knew they were trespassing, but did so willfully. The officers patiently warned them that if they didn't go back to the sidewalk, that they would be arrested for trespassing. I saw one of them get up, and go back. The other four were peacefully arrested after about 5 minutes of warnings.
All of the other protesters just yelled that this was an injustice, and how could we let this happen, etc, etc.. But let their friends get taken away anyway. I'm not sure I understand all that.
This last picture I included, simply because the officer in the picture was a member of the State Police. There were a couple of them supporting the city police, and we heard that there were plenty nearby waiting to show up if there was a need. But mainly I included the picture cause he was super nice, and kinda cute too.
I wish I had thought to bring my real camera to work. All of these were taken with my phone.
Certainly made for an interesting afternoon at work....
AMW
Wednesday, December 14, 2011
Holiday Cheer
I think I mentioned already that last week was a tough week. And it has continued a little into this week as well... (If you see a post titled "Rental Property", then you will want to either skip it, or settle in, because it will be a RANT for sure...)
So, in the midst of this week, we were shopping in Target. We went by the frozen food section, just to pick ups something quick. And Ice Cream. Cause we always have to have Ice Cream in the house.
There was a young teenage boy (my guess is 13 to 14 years old) shopping with his mother. Instead of the typical attitude you would expect from a boy of this age who is shopping with his mother, the young man had a different approach to dealing with the monotony of shopping.
He was singing the 12 Days of Christmas!
When he got to the 4th day, he was trying to remember the lyrics. His mother joined in and helped him out. (We were secretly smiling at this point)
When he got to the 5th day, we joined in! And sang through, and then again at the 6th day. By the "7th" day verse - we were all laughing at the spontaneity of random people caroling in the frozen food section.
The best part was that the young man didn't get embarrassed and stop singing when we joined in. He just kept going.
And gave us all a little bit of holiday cheer!
Have you ever experienced some randomness like this???
AMW
So, in the midst of this week, we were shopping in Target. We went by the frozen food section, just to pick ups something quick. And Ice Cream. Cause we always have to have Ice Cream in the house.
There was a young teenage boy (my guess is 13 to 14 years old) shopping with his mother. Instead of the typical attitude you would expect from a boy of this age who is shopping with his mother, the young man had a different approach to dealing with the monotony of shopping.
He was singing the 12 Days of Christmas!
When he got to the 4th day, he was trying to remember the lyrics. His mother joined in and helped him out. (We were secretly smiling at this point)
When he got to the 5th day, we joined in! And sang through, and then again at the 6th day. By the "7th" day verse - we were all laughing at the spontaneity of random people caroling in the frozen food section.
The best part was that the young man didn't get embarrassed and stop singing when we joined in. He just kept going.
And gave us all a little bit of holiday cheer!
Have you ever experienced some randomness like this???
AMW
Sunday, December 11, 2011
What a week...
Well this week has been full of challenges. Lots of them. Big ones and little ones.
But one of the most frustrating ones has to do with Make My Christmas this year. If you aren't familiar with MMC, it's similar to a "Secret Santa" gift exchange, but you MAKE a gift for the person whose name you draw. And in return, you get a handmade gift from whoever draws your name.
This is my third year participating, and I've had a blast! Of course I made quilts, and the first year I stressed about getting it done. The second year, I enjoyed it more and had little stress.
But this year is different.......
I've got the top and back and binding ready.
I reserved the long-arm for tomorrow.
And then I got a call that the machine is down, they are waiting on a part that they HOPE will be in Wednesday, and hopefully the machine will be back up and running by Thursday or Friday.
And MMC is due Saturday.
Saturday.
I really have no idea what I'm going to do. I've got calls out to several other shops to see if they rent or know of other rentals. But no luck yet.
I really like this quilt, and don't want to try to do it at home, just to get it done. I won't be happy with it.
I can cross my fingers and hope for the best. But if not, then I don't know what to do.....
Not go to the party?
Drink a little?
Go, and give an unfinished quilt (in front of everyone!)?
Drink moderately?
Visit the recipient ahead of time and explain?
Drink heavily?
What would you do?
AMW
But one of the most frustrating ones has to do with Make My Christmas this year. If you aren't familiar with MMC, it's similar to a "Secret Santa" gift exchange, but you MAKE a gift for the person whose name you draw. And in return, you get a handmade gift from whoever draws your name.
This is my third year participating, and I've had a blast! Of course I made quilts, and the first year I stressed about getting it done. The second year, I enjoyed it more and had little stress.
But this year is different.......
I've got the top and back and binding ready.
I reserved the long-arm for tomorrow.
And then I got a call that the machine is down, they are waiting on a part that they HOPE will be in Wednesday, and hopefully the machine will be back up and running by Thursday or Friday.
And MMC is due Saturday.
Saturday.
I really have no idea what I'm going to do. I've got calls out to several other shops to see if they rent or know of other rentals. But no luck yet.
I really like this quilt, and don't want to try to do it at home, just to get it done. I won't be happy with it.
I can cross my fingers and hope for the best. But if not, then I don't know what to do.....
Not go to the party?
Drink a little?
Go, and give an unfinished quilt (in front of everyone!)?
Drink moderately?
Visit the recipient ahead of time and explain?
Drink heavily?
What would you do?
AMW
Sunday, November 27, 2011
Valiant Effort
Well, I gave it a shot, but didn't quite make it through the whole month of NaBloPoMo. We had no internet access this weekend, and unless I posted a picture of our fire each night at the campsite from my phone, I didn't have anything to post.
That's what we did almost all weekend. Hung out and relaxed. The only major exception was Friday night. We met my folks for dinner and then drove the boardwalk in Virginia Beach for the lights. Here are a few pics from the drive...
It was an enjoyable weekend of camping. Even with the lack of internet! Or maybe because of it... Either way, it was great.
AMW
That's what we did almost all weekend. Hung out and relaxed. The only major exception was Friday night. We met my folks for dinner and then drove the boardwalk in Virginia Beach for the lights. Here are a few pics from the drive...
It was an enjoyable weekend of camping. Even with the lack of internet! Or maybe because of it... Either way, it was great.
AMW
Thursday, November 24, 2011
Thanksgiving
And this is how I'm winding down the day...
By the way, I'm trying out the blogger app for my phone. So if you don't see a picture, then I screwed up!
Wednesday, November 23, 2011
Amazing Sunset
Today started off dreary and rainy. It was forecasted to be this way all day, and for the most of the day, it was.
We ran errands, and did stuff to get ready for our camping trip over the next couple of days.
In the yuck...
The hardware store was out of the wing nuts we needed, so I begrudgingly went back out this afternoon.
I came out, and saw this:
I thought, "That's kinda cool! The sun came out, and it looks neat reflecting off of the trees as it's setting..."
Then I drove home, and I could tell that it was looking even better, so I drove past the house, just a couple blocks, to the water. And THIS is what I was rewarded with!
I should have stopped by the house to grab my regular camera, but I was afraid I'd miss it. So these pictures came from my camera phone.
But I didn't want to miss it! What a WONDERFUL ending to a dreary day! IT was absolutely stunning!
AMW
We ran errands, and did stuff to get ready for our camping trip over the next couple of days.
In the yuck...
The hardware store was out of the wing nuts we needed, so I begrudgingly went back out this afternoon.
I came out, and saw this:
I thought, "That's kinda cool! The sun came out, and it looks neat reflecting off of the trees as it's setting..."
Then I drove home, and I could tell that it was looking even better, so I drove past the house, just a couple blocks, to the water. And THIS is what I was rewarded with!
I should have stopped by the house to grab my regular camera, but I was afraid I'd miss it. So these pictures came from my camera phone.
But I didn't want to miss it! What a WONDERFUL ending to a dreary day! IT was absolutely stunning!
AMW
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
Our Christmas Tree
I know there are a few days left until Thanksgiving. But we were working around the house today, and I decided to go ahead and put up our tree.
Luckily, it didn't take very long, as we still have a lot to do around here...
Yes, it's our very own "Charlie Brown Christmas Tree"! And even plays the trademark music...
Let the holidays begin!
Do you "deck the halls"? Go all out? Or are you a minimalist like we are this year?
AMW
Luckily, it didn't take very long, as we still have a lot to do around here...
Yes, it's our very own "Charlie Brown Christmas Tree"! And even plays the trademark music...
Let the holidays begin!
Do you "deck the halls"? Go all out? Or are you a minimalist like we are this year?
AMW
Monday, November 21, 2011
Vacation ahead
Starting at 5:00 pm I'll be on vacation for a week. After yesterday's post, you can tell that I need it.
What's planned? Some house work, Thanksgiving dinner, and CAMPING! Don't know how much internet access we'll have, and have never tried the blogger app for my phone. So it will truly be a miracle if I can keep up this every day pace through the weekend. But I'll give it a shot!
Also, visiting a new campground near the oceanfront that we've not been to before. Really excited about that.
AMW
What's planned? Some house work, Thanksgiving dinner, and CAMPING! Don't know how much internet access we'll have, and have never tried the blogger app for my phone. So it will truly be a miracle if I can keep up this every day pace through the weekend. But I'll give it a shot!
Also, visiting a new campground near the oceanfront that we've not been to before. Really excited about that.
AMW
Sunday, November 20, 2011
Frustration is the word of the day...
I got some frustrating news today and have been spending time processing it. So have had NO time to think of a post today.
Definitely have some sorting out to do, and figuring out some alternative options.
How do you handle life changes, and choices, and stress?
AMW
Definitely have some sorting out to do, and figuring out some alternative options.
How do you handle life changes, and choices, and stress?
AMW
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